If You Want To Reach Your Goals, These Are The Things You Need To Do

Updated: December 30, 2023

December is a time when a lot of people are happy and feel most hopeful about life. And beyond the celebrations, shopping, and reunions, it’s also during this month when we look back at everything we’ve done during the year, and note the failures and successes we’ve experienced.

However, I’d like to challenge you to reflect upon not just this year, but to see how your life has changed in the past five years. Where were you 5 years ago? What were you doing? What were your hopes and dreams back then?

More importantly, how are you today? Are you now where you imagined you’d be five years ago? Were you able to make your hopes and dreams come true, or at least be much closer to attaining them now?

Most of the people I’ve asked to do this exercise told me that their lives may have changed, but they’re not much closer to any of their goals in life.

A friend who used to work as an engineer shared that five years ago, he planned to start his own construction firm and go into real estate investing.

Today, that friend is a supervisor in a manufacturing company and owns a single real estate property, a house and lot where he and his wife now live.

The things most people do

“So what are your goals five years from now?” I asked my friend.

“I hope to start my own business, probably a mini-grocery, and also buy a condo unit that I can rent out,” he replied.

“That’s not much different from your goals five years ago,” I remarked.

“Is it? Well, yeah you’re right,” he said after taking a moment to think about it.

“What happened to your goal before starting your own firm?”

“I was already writing a business plan when I got this job offer. The salary was excellent, and so I grabbed the opportunity.”

“What about your plans for investing in properties?”

“When I accepted this job, I had to put that on hold because I got so busy at work.”

“Then you bought a house and lot.”

“Yeah, my company formed a partnership with this bank, and all supervisors got the benefit of guaranteed approval for a home loan. My wife and I have been wanting to move out of my parents’ house, so we took the offer.”

The things you need to do

Our goals in life may change, but when the things you want five years ago are still the same today, and you’re not any closer to achieving them, then you’ve wasted five years of your life procrastinating on your dreams.

You’ve been taking the easy road by letting circumstances dictate your actions. You have been drifting through life hoping that everything will one day fall into place.

You’ve allowed yourself to get distracted by new, unchallenging, but less meaningful goals because you dreaded the difficulties you’ll face if you stay committed to your dreams.

My friend could have declined the job offer and continued with the business planning that he already started. Furthermore, he could have bought a rental property instead of a house, and just learned to bear living with his parents for a few more years.

These are hard and uncomfortable choices that are riddled with fear and self-doubt but realize that nothing worth having will ever come easy.

To reach your goals – you must sacrifice things that others can’t, go the extra mile where others don’t, and exert effort that others won’t.

To reach your goals, you need to do what you already know you must do but have been avoiding doing because it’s hard.

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  1. You are totally right Fitz. In order to succeed, people must also things that they have never done, who knows it is going to be the break of their lifetime, success is a matter of managing risk, risk is dangerous only if people don’t know how to handle and manage it.

  2. Thirteen years ago, the first love of my life was called home at young age. Many things changed in my life as I dealt with estate issues and rebuilding the portfolios that were drawn down during my first bride’s battle with cancer. Eventually I was dating again and seven years ago, moved to the Philippines. My first relationship here was a bad choice on my part, I did not pay attention to the many signals and the small voice inside. When the truly perfect woman came into my life, it was “off to the races.” These days I am blessed with a wife who is a partner in all things. All of my former business activities are improving and getting back on track in a big way. My beautiful bride is great in her business building. Who ever thought that I would again marry and within two years, help build a business half way around the world from my native country. AND, that is just the start. A second venture was fired up and there are several plans for additional expansion into other areas. I really have no time for retirement and can honestly say “it don’t get no better than this.” You are correct Mr Fitz, you have to set goals and one by one take them out.

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