10 Ways To Teach Your Children About Money Management

Updated: January 11, 2024

Growing up, the only money lesson I really learned from my parents was that it’s important to ‘save money for the rainy days.’

While that is indeed an essential lesson, to me at that time, this simply meant that I shouldn’t spend all my allowances and make sure that I save some for my piggy bank.

Even the concept of ‘the rainy days’ wasn’t clear to me. Because whenever my piggy bank became full, my parents would spend the money on a toy for me.

“This is your reward for saving your money,” they’d say; this confused me because I thought the money was for the ‘rainy days’ and not a toy.

Regardless, I’m still thankful that they taught me the importance of saving money. After all, it is a foundational habit for building wealth.

Fast forward to today, and many of my friends are now raising children of their own. And it happens quite often that they’d ask me about personal finance, particularly on how they can raise money-smart kids.

Here’s a quick list of the tips I’ve given.

10 Ways to Teach Pre-Teen Kids About Money

1. Talk about money in front of them.
Money is often a taboo topic in front of kids, but it shouldn’t be. Feel free to talk about finances with your spouse even when they’re around. They may not understand what you’re talking about, but they’ll develop an impression that money is a serious matter.

2. Explain the relationship between work and money.
I used to believe that work is just something that adults do. And if my parents need money, they just have to go to the bank or find an ATM. So, when my mom says that they don’t have money or we can’t afford something, it only means to me that they don’t have time yet to go to the bank.

I didn’t connect work and money, and I didn’t learn about the concept of a salary until a grade-school classmate explained it when he told me over recess that his father was leaving to work overseas so he could earn more money for their family.

3. Discuss needs vs wants.
Define the terms and explain why it’s important to know their differences. Then, use items in your home to test if they understood the concept; tell them to label each as either a need or a want.

Furthermore, encourage them to think about their life and ask what their needs and wants are as a child and/or as a student.

4. Give them opportunities to earn.
Your child’s allowance should just be enough to cover their necessary spending, such as food expenses at school. Then, tell them that if they want more money, then they can earn it by doing some extra work.

Your kids need to learn how to help around the house. So, don’t give them financial rewards for doing their assigned household chores. Instead, offer them incentives for doing something that’s not part of their responsibilities.

For instance, I remember my father offering to pay me if I washed his car instead of letting him take it to the car wash. I’d also earn extra money if I offered to fold the laundry and let my mom take a nap instead.

5. Encourage them to track their expenses.
Ask your child to take note of their spending. It’s a simple exercise that will introduce them to the concept of budgeting.

Avoid telling them off if they spent their allowance recklessly. Instead, ask them which are needs and which are wants, and guide them in understanding their spending mistake.

6. Avoid impulse purchases.
You’re at the grocery store, and they see something they want you to buy. If it’s a non-essential item (which often is), and even if you have the budget, just tell them to remind you to purchase it on your next visit. This helps them develop a mindset against impulse purchases.

But be prepared to get the item next time if they do remember. On the other hand, if it’s something you can’t afford or don’t really want for them, then explain the reason why you’re not buying it instead of giving them false hopes.

7. Motivate them to save for a goal.
Truth be told, I kept saving money as a kid because I knew I’d get a new toy when my piggy bank became full. The prospect of a reward or a concrete goal for the money is an effective motivation for your child to learn the habit of saving.

8. Give them their own bank account.
That money they saved in their piggy banks? Use it to open their own savings account. A lot of banks offer deposit products that are specially designed for kids. Plus, this is an opportunity to teach them the concept of interest income and how banks work.

9. Be a role model.
Show your child your savings account. Let them see you create the household budget. Share with them your financial goals and explain what you’re doing to achieve them. Be a good example to your child by being financially smart yourself.

10. Teach them the importance of giving.
Lastly, but certainly not the least, allow them to experience the joy of helping and making others happy. Ask them to buy a gift for someone they know or guide them in picking a cause or charity where they can donate some of their savings. Not only will they learn how to be generous, but it will also make them happier.

Now, it’s your turn. What can you add to the list? What other money lessons can you teach a child to make them financially smart and responsible? Share them in the comments section.

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  1. Absolutely, teaching the art and science of personal finance is one of the very best gifts that you instill in a child. The younger the better. I have really noticed the differences between the three great children my Beautiful Bride brought to our marriage. The youngest (eight years old) is a super saver. We always see him add to his big plastic snack jug that I converted into a “bank” by cutting a slot for deposits in the lid. A friend of ours was trying to sell a lightly used cellphone. Our youngest said “I will buy it, if is OK with you Mommy.” Wife asked “do you have enough?” Little guy sure did, he pulled out his “roll” of paper money, purchased the phone and put the change back into his bank !!!

    Middle child is very different. She is a sweet kid and will often justify purchasing unneeded and low quality items at a few local stores because she is friendly with the owners. She says that she wants to help them. When a good opportunity comes along, she has little to nothing in the piggy bank. Thankfully she is surrounded by a plan that I think she does not yet fully understand or appreciate? She is improving however. Eldest son is between his two siblings but tends toward the more conservative side with his money.

    I do take time with the troops to show them a little of what I do at night with my option trading on the US exchanges. When there is a holiday here in the Philippines or a school brake, I often invite them to do a trade along beside me. It is great fun!!! Once I have chosen an underlying to sell against, I decide how large of a position I want. I have each child enter an order of their own and hit send. I place the remaining order for myself and then we wait for a fill. When/if the computer sounds the alert, it is then bedtime for the gang. Each day, I update the crew on their positions progress. We gather again on option expiration Friday and either watch as the option expires worthless and they keep 100% of the premium they sold or we roll the position out in time for another week and additional profit. Sometimes, a covered call position is ITM (In The Money) and we have a discussion about allowing the position to be called away (witch closes the trade) or if we should roll it out in time and possibly up in strike price. This is real live trading and how I earn a large percentage of my income. I am pleased to have the troops “at work” with me from time to time!!! My idea is to motivate them toward investing & trading. The gains they pocket is their bonus for paying attention. I hope they stay interested until they each have their own local account to swing trade PSE stocks.

    What we did with all three is mirror the multi-point plan I put in place for my Beautiful Bride’s future security. The troops are not yet employed and not yet allowed to join Pag-ibig. They do not yet have the medium term investment in the MP2 fund that my wife does. Basically, everything else is a copy of my wife’s financial plan. We have purchased each of the troops a three ring binder to hold all financial data. In the binder there is:
    1. spreadsheets to track the investment I made for each child in the family business. Each month, the kids sit at the kitchen table in fill in their monthly earnings from the business. That is hands OFF and compounds until further notice!
    2. The children’s bank account information, passbook, ATM cards are in a plastic pocket ready for access.
    3. The kids insurance information is in a separate plastic pocket.
    4. Family contact info as well as a labeled pics of important people reside in yet another plastic pouch.
    5. If ever these confounded lockdowns will end, maybe, just maybe we can get the troops into the brokerage firm we have chosen for them to open their Philippine based trading accounts? We still plan to draft ITF (In Trust For) agreements and each child will have their own brokerage account to begin their adventure in swing trading on the PSE.

    Now, see what you have helped to create Fitz? You provided the information, old Dad along with Beautiful Bride provided the motivation. We will, hopefully, one day release four (little guy is 16 months old) financially well educated troops into society.

  2. Wow, some days I do not get enough sleep before US market hours and make a lot of mistakes, In the above post I mentioned “little guy” as eight years old. Then, in the closing paragraph, I mentioned little guy as 16 months old. Perhaps it is obvious but I certainly was not clear. Beautiful Bride and I have added one more family member. Lance was born in September 2020. He joins with his three siblings that my wonderful wife brought to our marriage. All four bring joy to our marriage !

    READERS, stay well and have super 2021 !!!!!
    From Jack & Maria in Bulacan on Luzon

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