Comments on: How To Make Friends Pay Back The Money They Owe You http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html Money, Business and Personal Finance Tue, 16 Mar 2010 05:59:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: l http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-43723 l Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:23:16 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-43723 i just read this post i lend my friend around £13.000 i let her stay with me for 3 month with no paying £0.01 becuase she sold her house and she lost evrything. I help her as much as i can. done evything for her the money which she lent with promes that will get back in 2-3 weeks she start being very bad to me and all my friends so i ask her to leave my flat, i cant stand this any more. i lern that never lend money to a friend and im shure that i will be have a lot of provblems to get the money back i just read this post

i lend my friend around £13.000
i let her stay with me for 3 month with no paying £0.01 becuase she sold her house and she lost evrything.
I help her as much as i can. done evything for her
the money which she lent with promes that will get back in 2-3 weeks
she start being very bad to me and all my friends
so i ask her to leave my flat, i cant stand this any more.

i lern that never lend money to a friend and im shure that i will be have a lot of provblems to get the money back

]]> By: Valentino http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-42078 Valentino Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:17:59 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-42078 Very good article ;), I really can see my own problems in this. Very good article ;) ,

I really can see my own problems in this.

]]> By: Sky http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-34535 Sky Wed, 26 Aug 2009 07:10:55 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-34535 this page is a good way to get back the money my friends owe me. it is very irresponsible for friends that ask for money, and when you are kind to give them, thay wont give you back.they say a bunch of f*ucking excuses and in the end, some people give back, some dont. we should never lend people money unless you are willing to part with it or u trust that person. my friends owe my money and they keep saying "end of this month" "everyday five $2" but they never. this page is a good way to get back the money my friends owe me.
it is very irresponsible for friends that ask for money, and when you are kind to give them, thay wont give you back.they say a bunch of f*ucking excuses and in the end, some people give back, some dont. we should never lend people money unless you are willing to part with it or u trust that person. my friends owe my money and they keep saying “end of this month” “everyday five $2″ but they never.

]]> By: ana http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-32540 ana Wed, 05 Aug 2009 01:33:49 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-32540 nahihiya akong maningil. Kasi ako pag may utang nagbabayad kagad ako, hindi ako makatulog pag may utang ako sa iba. That's why i expect my friends to be the same with me too. Lesson learned talaga ang dami kong ganyan lalo na sa relatives na mas matatanda pa sakin. And I agree with you, you only lend money you can afford to lose. Para pag hindi nabayaran di sasama ang loob mo. nahihiya akong maningil.

Kasi ako pag may utang nagbabayad kagad ako, hindi ako makatulog pag may utang ako sa iba. That’s why i expect my friends to be the same with me too.

Lesson learned talaga ang dami kong ganyan lalo na sa relatives na mas matatanda pa sakin. And I agree with you, you only lend money you can afford to lose. Para pag hindi nabayaran di sasama ang loob mo.

]]> By: Segun http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-17770 Segun Sun, 12 Apr 2009 12:30:51 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-17770 What really pisses me off about some friends is assuming that you don't really need the money they owe. They believe you earn well enough to do away with the money I think it is utterly irresponsible of friends to be reminded of what they owe you. It's a lot pleasing for the friend to, once in a while, mention the fact that he owes you, and that he is trying to pay you back. Forgetting about the money owed can be hard. I have a couple of friends owing me some money. The individual amounts are small, but all add up to good money that I can use. What really pisses me off about some friends is assuming that you don’t really need the money they owe. They believe you earn well enough to do away with the money

I think it is utterly irresponsible of friends to be reminded of what they owe you. It’s a lot pleasing for the friend to, once in a while, mention the fact that he owes you, and that he is trying to pay you back.

Forgetting about the money owed can be hard. I have a couple of friends owing me some money. The individual amounts are small, but all add up to good money that I can use.

]]> By: Fitz http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-17012 Fitz Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:31:07 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-17012 Thank you everyone for sharing your stories. It's really much appreciated. :D Thank you everyone for sharing your stories. It’s really much appreciated. :D

]]> By: Trips http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-16361 Trips Wed, 01 Apr 2009 21:51:43 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-16361 I lent $2000 to a friend in Jan 2008 when she was undergoing some financial difficutlies. In Jan 2009 I asked her to payback the money, not all at once, but in installments. She claimed that the IRS was garnishing her paycheck and she was barely making ends meet. I plan to ask her to start making payments again next month. She hasnt broken ties with me or avoided me. But she has a poor credit history and I am very afraid that I will never see the money again( The IRS had to garnish her paycheck to get what was owed to them in the first place!) Right now I am unemployed and though my husband has an income, we could definetely use the $2000 which was ours in the first place! I honestly think I have been patient for long enough and really hope she does not take blatant advantage of my kindness. I lent $2000 to a friend in Jan 2008 when she was undergoing some financial difficutlies. In Jan 2009 I asked her to payback the money, not all at once, but in installments. She claimed that the IRS was garnishing her paycheck and she was barely making ends meet. I plan to ask her to start making payments again next month. She hasnt broken ties with me or avoided me. But she has a poor credit history and I am very afraid that I will never see the money again( The IRS had to garnish her paycheck to get what was owed to them in the first place!) Right now I am unemployed and though my husband has an income, we could definetely use the $2000 which was ours in the first place!

I honestly think I have been patient for long enough and really hope she does not take blatant advantage of my kindness.

]]> By: Jason http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-5810 Jason Fri, 07 Nov 2008 09:28:01 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-5810 Lucky me, lahat ng pinapautang ko, nagbabayad. Hahaha! Lucky me, lahat ng pinapautang ko, nagbabayad. Hahaha!

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]]> By: GiGiG http://fitzvillafuerte.com/how-to-make-friends-pay-back-the-money-they-owe-you.html#comment-5314 GiGiG Fri, 24 Oct 2008 15:58:26 +0000 http://fitzvillafuerte.com/?p=871#comment-5314 As a girl, in junior high and high school, it was clothing. Now, as an adult, it's money. I absolutely enjoyed this post. Who hasn't found themselves in this situation? I learned my lesson a few times (too many); but one situation sticks out in my head. I loaned one of my lovely, and dear friends $300 to help her pay for her rent. I should have known not to--the girl had serious disposable income, a girl with no money has no business owning Prada, Gucci, Chloe, or Pucci, unless she did, right? I loaned her the money anyway. I never saw the money again. I blew it off--she was spending unbelievable amounts to be a bridesmaid in my destination wedding, so I figured it was a wash. However, I since moved away from that city and when I came back for a visit, she let me stay with her. She treated me to two dinners. AND she gave me one of her expensive designer dresses (worth well over $300) that she never wore (tags still attached). Summary: Our friendship was worth so much more than $300. She's bad with money--I shouldn't bare the burden--but I know that now. She has not asked me to loan her money since. I think she knows better to not jeopardize our friendship. As a girl, in junior high and high school, it was clothing.

Now, as an adult, it’s money. I absolutely enjoyed this post. Who hasn’t found themselves in this situation? I learned my lesson a few times (too many); but one situation sticks out in my head. I loaned one of my lovely, and dear friends $300 to help her pay for her rent. I should have known not to–the girl had serious disposable income, a girl with no money has no business owning Prada, Gucci, Chloe, or Pucci, unless she did, right? I loaned her the money anyway. I never saw the money again. I blew it off–she was spending unbelievable amounts to be a bridesmaid in my destination wedding, so I figured it was a wash.

However, I since moved away from that city and when I came back for a visit, she let me stay with her. She treated me to two dinners. AND she gave me one of her expensive designer dresses (worth well over $300) that she never wore (tags still attached).

Summary: Our friendship was worth so much more than $300. She’s bad with money–I shouldn’t bare the burden–but I know that now. She has not asked me to loan her money since. I think she knows better to not jeopardize our friendship.

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