15 Money Mistakes I Regret Doing During My 20’s

Posted by Fitz Villafuerte under Life Lessons, Personal Finance on March 9, 2015

If there’s one good thing that I can say about being in your 20’s, it would be having that glorious sense of independence.

It’s the time when you believe that you can do anything, and you’re ready to change the world and make a difference.

However, navigating through early adult life is of course, not without challenges – the biggest of which is realizing and accepting that the world is tougher, more competitive and less forgiving than what you can imagine.

And when it comes to your finances, it will be a constant internal struggle between enjoying life now and financially preparing for the uncertain future.

So, from a Gen X’er to the Millennial Generation, I’d like to share the top 15 money mistakes I regret doing during my 20’s.

My only hope is that you’ll be smart enough to avoid these costly financial pitfalls.

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Money Management Mistakes

#1 I regret not learning how to budget.
I spent money without thinking about my needs and wants. I still cringe when I remember the times that I had to lie to my officemates and say I’m too busy to join them for lunch, when the truth is that I had no more money to eat out with them.

#2 I regret not immediately building an emergency fund.
My philosophy back then was that as long as I have money in my ATM account, then I’m okay. I later learned that when it’s easy to withdraw your cash, then you’ll most likely spend it, rather than save it.

#3 I regret misusing and abusing my credit cards.
I treated each pre-approved credit card that I received as “free money” back then. But when I started defaulting on my payments and getting angry calls from collecting agents, I became depressed, paranoid and my self-esteem suffered.

#4 I regret not investing early.
In 2001, an officemate bought DMC shares and invited me to do the same. I declined because I was saving up for a Boracay trip. If I had only invested P10,000 in the stock market back then, those DMC shares would now be worth P1.5 million – seriously!

#5 I regret not setting long-term financial goals.
I had no problems saving up to buy the latest mobile phone, or getting the budget for an out-of-town trip. But when I think about it now, if I had only set bigger goals for myself, then I would have been able to start a business or even afford a car sooner than years later.

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Career and Lifestyle Mistakes

#6 I regret moving out of my parents’ house too soon.
After living in the dorm my whole college life, my first instinct when I graduated was to get my own place. Looking back, I wish I had stayed with my parents a little longer because that would have allowed me to save so much money.

#7 I regret choosing income over learning.

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I once chose a high-salary engineering staff position over a moderate-income management trainee job. I now wish I had chosen the latter because that actually offered immense learning opportunities on business productivity and management – knowledge that I later needed when I started my own business.

#8 I regret spending too much on trendy clothes.
Call it peer pressure, the fear of missing out or simply wanting to keep up with my wealthy friends – but I really wished I didn’t spend so much money on clothes that would become out-of-fashion after a year.

#9 I regret ignoring my employment benefits.
I treated SSS, Pag-Ibig and Philhealth deductions as just necessary evils. I wish I paid more attention to them, studied their terms and took advantage of the financial benefits that they offered when I had the chance.

#10 I regret not taking the initiative to learn soft skills.
I was an engineer, and believed it was not important for me to learn sales and communication skills to advance my career. Later on, I discovered that these interpersonal skills are necessary if you want to succeed in life.

#11 I regret choosing television over passion.
I used to be a couch potato. Now I regret watching so many hours of television instead of pursuing various hobbies. I could have discovered my passion for writing and story telling earlier, and eventually started this blog sooner.

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Relationship Mistakes

#12 I regret not talking about money with my parents.
If only I had talked to my parents about financial matters, instead of just giving them money every month, then I could have been aware and become more proactive sooner in helping them prepare for their retirement.

#13 I regret needlessly borrowing money from friends.
I remember borrowing money from friends so I can go with them on trips, or buy the latest mobile phone. Because I knew I could depend on them, that only discouraged me from taking my personal budget and cashflow seriously.

#14 I regret irresponsibly lending money to friends.
I have a handful of good friendships that got broken because of money and what’s worse is that some of them were petty amounts. I’ve patched things up with a few of them, but the damage done by the lost trust can never bring the relationship back to how it was before.

#15 I regret recklessly spending in the name of love.
I used to spend ridiculous amounts of cash on dates and gifts. I thought that the bigger the gesture, the better. Now that I’m older and wiser, I have come to realize that expressing true love need not be expensive, do you agree?

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12 Responses to “15 Money Mistakes I Regret Doing During My 20’s”


  1. Sherill says:

    I am guilty of a number of those included in this list but the important thing is, we have overcome this now and we are on our way towards financial independence! 🙂 Thanks for this article Sir Fitz!

  2. peter B says:

    Thanks Fitz for this advice coz i’ve been a victim of this but planning to change

  3. Adrian says:

    After reading this, I’ve realized how unprepared a lot of us were on how to deal with finances.

    I guess it also came from always being told that we cam do whatever we wanted after we graduate and get a job.

    That’s one thing I would like to change and be able to pass on to any child we would have to really understand how to make money work for you amd use it to achieve your dreams and not just to feel validated by being able to spend.

  4. Charity says:

    Glad to have read your mistakes in my 20’s… Hehe
    Actually im guilty already about 13 of your mistakes…
    And this month we are learning on how to budget and take control of our finances…
    I have learned alot…
    Thanks for sharing your story…

  5. #1 #2 #4

    I wish I learned about these back when I was still in school, when my parents were still giving me monetary allowance.

  6. iamjenicejoy says:

    I can relate, I have lot of regrets from my 20s! Thank God it’s not late to start to live right 🙂 Learn from our mistakes.

  7. Waitingforever says:

    Hi sir. Im glad that you made this kind of article. Actually im in my mid 20s and i really feel all your words.. Its a great oppurtunity for me to assess myself and think of where my money is acutally going. 🙂 nice one! 🙂

  8. Li says:

    Hi Fitz, can you elaborate on the SSS benefits for young adults? I tried to check your search box but didn’t find results.

  9. Toni says:

    thanks Sir. Fitz for this great article.. it helped me a lot to be more prepare for my remaining years of my 20’s..

  10. edna says:

    i hope ur article makes everyone aware about financial matters, we must prepare for our future..everybody will getting old wither we accept it or not..

  11. Nico says:

    Tama eh. Naka relate talaga ako tungkol dun sa “peer pressure”. Hindi man ako gumagastos sa mamahaling damit, ramdam ko na medyo “out of place” ka kapag hindi trendy ang damit o gamit mo. Iniisip ko na lang na wala lang naman sa ngayon yan, nasa bukas din.

  12. kori says:

    oh no, #15 spare me.. haha..

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